How to Hug a Child 101

Aku hanya seorang bapa biasa. Bukan bapa Professional. Bukan bapa amatur jua. Idea nii tiba2 tercetus dalam kepala. Sementara ianya masih hangat, aku terus ajer taip.

IMHO, hugging a child is vital. It is One of the important components in raising families. Aku juga percaya, ianya adalah salah satu sebab anak2 akan jadi lebih Berkeyakinan, dan Berpendirian. Tidak mudah diselewengkan oleh rakan2.

Erk, in other words, he he,. macam aku laa..

1. Starts as early as possible. Baby is the best. Once kids reach puberty, it's gone. If you starts early, hopefully it'll continue while they've grown.

2. Take your time to hug. Don't do it like Touch and Go. Stroke the back or head and count to 10. One, two, three..

3. While hugging, say nice words. Say it from your heart. "Sayang..Sayang. Good boy.. Good girl.. I love you.. et cetera."

4. Do as often as you can. Bangun Pagi. Balik kerja. Sebelum tidor.

5. As many things in this short life, enjoy the whole process. Ahhhh,. Best kaan..

6. Hug the kids first. Maam later, for the very clear reason.


Now Go and Hug your kids. Today.